But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. (Galatians 5:22-23)
Often the above passage is used as an exhortation (weapon?) to
bring about change in another person. If you’re feeling down one day, you might
hear, “The fruit of the Spirit is joy!” Unintentional or not, the implication
is that you are not “walking in the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16). You’re certainly
not “filled with the Spirit . . . . . . singing
and making melody in your heart to the Lord!” (Ephesians 5:18, 19). So
now you can add to your blues the guilt of spiritual failure!
In my sixty-one years of being a Christian, and my nearly forty-seven
years in the ministry, I have not noticed
people being changed because they were told they fall short of the fruit of the
Spirit. In fact, it seems highly unlikely that any Christian fully manifests every
character quality of the fruit of the Spirit at any given time. Paul is simply
pointing out that these good things come from the Spirit of God, while the bad
things are “works of the flesh” (Gal. 5:19-21). And the Christian life is
always a warfare, “so that you do not
do the things that you wish.” (Gal. 5:17) (See also Romans 7:18-21)
Since I have been
in the Philippines, however, I have seen how the fruit of the Spirit has worked
to change people’s lives—including my own. The Christians here have treated me
with love, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, and gentleness, and that has
brought out better things in me.
I have seen that “the
fruit of the Spirit” can indeed be an agent of change. It is through
manifesting those spiritual qualities toward others, especially those most
irritating. After all, how can we show “longsuffering (patience)” except to those
who try our patience? Christians struggling with stubborn sins, need love and
gentleness. They need to see goodness in action.
So the agent of
change in others is not the imposing of the fruit of the Spirit on them, but the modeling of the
fruit of the Spirit in us.